There are more than 127 million single people 18 years and older living in America, according to U.S. Census data
Dating in 2023 is no easy feat, and many are looking online to find love. There are more than 127 million single people 18 years and older living in America, according to U.S. Census data. That accounts for nearly 40% of the nation’s population, but many feel like they’re the only ones looking for a significant other.
Our new survey of more than 1,000 singles determines what is socially acceptable in this day and age when it comes to things like researching a person before going out with them and navigating the online dating world. We also used data to figure out which cities are home to the most singles across the country.
It’s not an easy time to date: more than half (56%) of singles feel dating is harder now than in previous years. More than 1 in 3 (35%) have gone on fewer dates because of inflation, and 26% are offering to split the bill more because of costs. More women (34%) than men (18%) are willing to do that.
Many people are having to turn to online options to find dates, but going out with a stranger comes with a whole new set of rules. Nearly half (49%) think it’s socially acceptable to stalk a date online before going out with them.
So, where are all these single people hiding? Census data shows a lot of cities with the most singles are out East! Richmond, Virginia ranked first followed by Pittsburgh (2nd), Buffalo (3rd), Newark (4th), and Cincinnati (5th).
Many cities in the top 20 are also from the Midwest. St. Louis ranked 8th, Detroit came in 9th, Madison in 10th, Milwaukee earned 18th, and Chicago ranked 20th!
